Sunday, June 27, 2010

2010 BET Awards: Music Mattered Tonight!!


Anytime a program leaves you ready to change the world, somebody was successful. BET did their thing tonight on the 10th Annual BET Music Awards!!! I was literally glued to my couch, using the commercial breaks to browse the bet.com for more information on the local leaders and new musicians. From the tributes to Michael Jackson and Prince to the well planned skits (the best was the Love Jones flashback), I was utterly amazed.
Everyone was on their A game. Jada Pickett rocked a vicarious glow. A beautiful 13 year old blew the roof down with her rendition of Alicia Keys’ “Fallen.” Trey Songs even sang a clean song!!!!
BET did an awesome job reminding us that Music Matters! My soul was filled by the presence of so many great artists. To see the gifts of great artists like Michael Jackson and Prince proves that if great music lived then, it shall never die.
Chris Brown’s tears are evidence of the affect that one man’s creativity can have on the entire world. He definitely won back points tonight. The “I disappointed you one time. I won’t do it again. I promise” line was a good touch. Chris’ publicist will be proud!
Alicia Keys stole Beyonce’s normal shine tonight. She topped it off with showing that she is sexy, pregnant and engaged all on top of the piano. Write about that YBF!
Diddy-Dirty Money: great performance, minus the fact that the girls were absolutely silent. I won’t talk about how I think he is conceited and is a slick owns those girls and guys. What are their names, again? I wouldn’t know!! All I see is D-I-D-D-Y!!!! I’ll let that slide only because I want to be positive.
Ok!!! Wait!!! One more.. Nicki Minaj was definitely rocking today. She is quite a character. Beautiful too. I don’t know how I feel about her acceptance speech explaining how she does this for the women. I mean, if you realized what you were actually teaching the women of tomorrow, you wouldn’t do half of the things that you do. Would you? But, that’s a completely different blog post about the portrayal of the African American woman as sex icons. I won’t continue to elaborate on how Nicki Minaj only affirms those stereotypes, in turn causing our girls to think that they have to fit into the ‘barbie doll’ image to be beautiful. Moving on….
Can I add that Eminem, an adoptive member to the black community, definitely did his thing with his performance!? I’m not afraid to take a stand because of his words. (Ok.. Actually, I wasn’t afraid before, but I know he is trying to encourage others to move, so I want to support that.) I appreciate his honesty about battling addiction and overcoming pain. Keep speaking it!!
The new artist spotlights were an original touch. The innovative lyrics were comforting. It felt good to see that real artists still do exist. My Pandora account is dying to add a station from someone whose reign was after the 90’s. (Lauryn Hill is about the latest artist I can do. Ok, I can also get down with Jill, Alicia, India, Chrisette and Corrine, but I was trying to make a point!)
BET definitely left me feeling like I have some work to do. We have to use our gifts towards uplifting our community. It is time to not only have money and sex on our minds but to be filled with humanitarian efforts that extend across the world to end the vast neglect of our people. John Legend, winner of this year’s humanitarian award, challenged us to stand up for decreasing poverty and ensuring that ‘our’ children receive a quality education.
Educational leaders that were recognized such as a veteran teacher from Missippii and Geoffrey Canada, leader of Harlem’s Children Zone, Inc. helped viewers to get a glimpse of the immense need there is of advocates for our children’s success. They need our help in aiding America through an educational reform that will allow all of our children to read on grade level, increase their critical thinking skills, go to college and revolutionize the world.
The 2010 BET Awards spoke change. It definitely reminded me of why I love being black. I’m so glad that we dodged the awkward moments when you just want to cover your face from the embarrassment that our people can sometimes cause our entire race. The BET Awards have previously been the ground for those memorable, yet horrid moments. Tonight, most moments were ones to be proud of.
Finally, I shout out my girl Queen Latifah, who not only revealed the evolution of a persevering black professional through her theatrical performances and outfits, but also because she represented with poise how beautiful black really is!
Bravo BET!!! I know you will give at least 12 encores this month.
Alright after show! The celebs get real real when you get behind the curtain. Gotta love it.

Sticks and Stones What a big lie, “Sticks …

Sticks and Stones What a big lie, “Sticks …

We need to uplift each other.

Every Little Girl DREAMS

Little girl, why are you sad?

Dry your eyes.

If I tell you that you’re beautiful, will you believe me? If I whisper secrets of your future, will you deny me?

The pain that you feel is attached to my soul. Your disappointment is my strength. Your passion is my present.

Did I ever tell you that I love you? Do you realize that your creativity will drive an entire nation?
Listen, as I gracefully speak your life.

You will be a warrior! For the rest of your life, you will fight to teach others how to seek truth. Your days will be lengthened because of your kind spirit. Hearts will bend and bruises will disappear because of your anointed touch. You will encourage broken souls and push them towards the path of righteousness. Your cup will run over.

Halt! The wicked will not accept your gifts.

Listen to me closely as I reveal the darkness that shall haunt you.

You will make many mistakes. You will be tortured by your past. People will not understand you. In fact, they will despise you. Your heart will be heavy with sorrow, for those that you love will attempt to break you. Your mind will overflow with burden, and you will be discouraged. During those moments, hold fast to your dreams.

In the midst of it all, your weakness will be your strength. The tribulations that you acquire on your journey will be your weapons. You will fight with your wisdom and save the universe.
You are the vision. You are change. Faith is your foundation, for you, my child, are love.
I feel your presence near me when I sleep. I walk with the remembrance of your sensitivity daily. I reminisce about the moments we’ve shared together. I model your integrity and humility. You are my inspiration.

Did I ever tell you I loved you? Do you realize that your creativity will drive a nation?

Little girl, you live inside of me, and I will never leave you.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Sacrificing for the Greater Good


My kids will pass this test. I have 10 students to get through the battle of this standardized assessment for their second time during summer remediation. For the next three weeks that I teach them, I will not eat meat or sweets, drink alcohol, watch television or participate in any activity that is not related to work before 5p.m. on school days. I will do this with an effort to put all of energy into being the best teacher that I can be for them. Second time around, these young leaders have no time for failure. Together, we will endure the workload, ensuring that they are prepared to break the chains and excell. Our community needs this. I must not fail them.


There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.